Masquerade

People who keep it real don’t hide behind a mask to keep themselves safe from their fear of how they think they should be. There is no pretending to be perfect or more powerful. Authentic people show up in a fullness of who they truly are, including the good and not so good. Without the worry of showing the world a part of themselves others would rather pretend didn't exist or hide behind. Authenticity has become a commodity in our culture, so if you know someone who is brave enough to be real, consider yourself blessed. We all want to look younger, be thinner, or more successful, but what people really crave is a deep connection with each other and acceptance (thus the need to pretend). When we succeed at the masquerade, we rip others off by not taking the risk in allowing them to share in the beauty of our real selves. Real people serve as reminders for us all that we are already good enough. It's negative self talk that is telling us we need to be something we are not. "Real" shows up as relaxed, humorous, grounded and genuine. They inspire others to reveal, be free of their own judgement, and fully accept themselves. Some may have to work a little harder to let go of pretenses, but the reward for taking such a risk is true into-me-you-see (intimacy), self love, and REAL connection.